kiwu asked its memorial season(as in jesus', I'm a Chr…

stay safe & irdk ngl my mom because she homophobic now and also transphobic but i am trans just gay and sadly she racist ( is this vent sorry if it is) but i used to want to live with her all the time but now its no thank you

Kevin ‹𝟹 · 13d

It has more to do with me than other people. I tend to be very self reflective. Other people's actions have never really impacted me or changed my perspective of them, even if they'd done something wrong. However, a few months ago, I kind of started to healthily realize that what those people do is not okay, and I don't need to forgive everyone that wrongs me. The amount of times I've allowed people to harm me and take advantage of me kind of made me self depreciating, constantly clinging onto these individuals and blaming myself for their behavior, and over time I think I just realized I don't really need these people in my life to begin with. SORRY FOR RAMBLING. Hope this makes sense!

𝙰𝗇𝗌𝗲𝚕. · 14d

dang alot of y'all have sad answers </3.... I can relate too tho, had someone who I was super close with but they took my kindness and love for granted and basically cut me off because they don't talk to me much anymore, which is sort of a good thing because I know he hasn't changed. I also used to dislike this girl because I thought she didn't like me, but eventually we got to know each other more and now I adore her!

kiwu · 14d

when goyim like kat have been there for me when i was going through a lot with antisemitism. didn’t know i could still trust goyim after [redacted]

shira · 14d

n95 is a good idea! stay safe kiwu <3

kat · 14d

i had a friend who i became really close with, we were friends for 2+ years, and then he suddenly started acting really harshly toward me and would do all of this kind of emotional push/pull stuff being really nice after saying something just awful. he really tore down my confidence, made me doubt myself and my sanity, and insulted me. he’d never apologize for what he did, just act like nothing had happened. i’m not someone you can just mistreat because you’re in a bad mood. i thought he was better than that, so i blocked him on everything and afaik he “has no idea why.” it pains me still to wonder if he thinks less of me for it, but i know thats just me being afraid of confrontation bc i don’t actually care what someone like that thinks of me.

i just miss when we were close and before i knew he was like that.

mana · 14d

My best fiend plead emoji . . in all seriousness I was socially distant at first but there was just something about him that clicked to me and made me want to talk more . I usually do not talk to ANYONE the same way that I talk to him . . he makes me feel valid and accepted and doesn't judge me for what I do and that's what I love about him . It's almost as if I can just tell him anything . . I love his jokes too and I think he's very funny , , he was always my favorite ever since we met and still is . I'm so happy nothing changed between us . I love my best friend / pㅤ(´｡• ᵕ •｡`)

Marchie · 14d

A former friend was going out there way to stir up drama, all the while knowing what I was going through and I could never look at the same afterwards because I am not a tool for amusement when bored, eventually I knew that my new perspective of them wouldn't change and ended the friendship

kiwu · 8 answers · 14d