its half and half i feel? i feel like if the person is my friend and i really like them, then i try to give second or even third chances unless it comes up again. for strangers or enemies, tjen... yea im carrying dat shit to my grave. it also depends on how severe it was or if the thing hurt me by proxy or if it was direct.... yea a lot of factors play into it. in general i try to give everyone second chances though since i like to thjnk people have the capacity to change. Also i hope you feel better