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thinking of relabelling myself as minromantic & panromantic... i recently had a realization about my gender that lead me to identifying as a paragirl instead of genderfluid, as well.
on that note, how do you identify? do you use mogai or micro labels? neopronouns? or are you more "vanilla" in your identity?
I am unlabeled, I like micro labels, but ultimately I don’t like labels since I had a phase where I limited myself with labels 😓 if that makes sense. Now I can be what I want without having to worry!!! I don’t have to be the textbook definition of something!!! #AWESOME!!!
Though it makes me feel less queer than others. sort of.
I used to use mogai labels ( goodfaith to be specific ), but I realized I was only really using them as a way to "rebel" instead of actually feeling like they were me, does that make sense? So now I do identify more as a micro-label ( nixic & faesari ), as I don't feel entirely comfortable with the label cis-fem. Though I do 100% only feel feminine and never masculine, when I do feel masculine, it's uncomfortable and doesn't feel like "me". I stopped using xenogenders a while ago as I didn't feel comfortable with them anymore 💔💔 I still technically use neopronouns, but I don't display them all too often.
I've even been considering gradually returning to using she/her because I don't mind it as much as I used to. 😪😪
I adore mogai and microlabels and neopronouns ..
to most I simply say I'm an aromantic gay man but I identify with acoromantic,
countless countless xenogenders (scythething, canidevolin && many others)
and nropronouns wise .. I use many though the main ones are it / lunari / scythe / haunt
I adore being specific with my identity, these things help me truly explain my experiences
oh god. how do i idnetify IM IN SUCH SHAMBLES refently i feel more feminine but im kinda gfluod maybr but im also really comfortable as judt a woman also i kinda wanna stsrt using shi hyr again i stopped becuz my irls have amlot of my socials and theyre all kinda flosef minded lovely people tjo anyways tldr idfk
uh I don't use any of those labels I do use neopronouns
I'm sorry to say I am rather puzzled about what some of these terms mean.. but I try to maintain a simple (or "vanilla", I suppose) identity because I have this genuine fear of becoming too "complex". I'm simply transmasc + boyflux, demiromantic + achillean and use hy or xem pronouns (｡･ω･｡) I tend to prefer more gender neutral pronouns as some days I feel more masculine, and others I may feel feminine.. although I still feel as though my overall gender identity is masc-aligned.. (if this is confusing please burn me at the stake I tend to ramble when I am nervous...)
I think I'm more "Vanilla" but I've honestly stopped trying to think upon it… Overly well-tuned labels always draw frustration out of me, since I run to fill the label instead of allowing it to adapt to me. For the most part nowadays, I just say I like women & I'm a woman even if there's more nuance to it that I itch to elaborate upon to every person I cross paths with 🐶🎀🌷
I used to be big on mogai … 🚬 (Also very obvious), but I’ve since mellowed out. I still use labels like Mirrattract because it’s a base part of my identity — how I perceive relationships, though I have more boundaries in regards to it now.
Anywho … I’m not necessarily vanilla, though I keep most of those things private now. Just an intersex bigender bisexual boygirl at your service!
I really wish I could delete / private my old blog like I had said so but … Since it was linked to my groomer’s email, I genuinely can’t enter it as due to inactivity it’s asking for an email verification. Ugh … If somehow she’s reading this, can you just purge the thing? Neither of us want it!
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