i in concept give everyone second chances always. though i try to be reasonable regarding how much one person is supposed to handle things.

like, if you mess up a billion times, and i don’t feel its a fundamental issue/it is but not one you intend to support, i’d forgive you forever. and i do. but if its hurting me to an extent, at some point i try to be reasonable regarding if i want to be around someone like that… but i’d still not blame them, you know.

those closest to me are those who have .. fucked up many times. but i don’t think they’re bad people, so i don’t get whats wrong w all the chances lol.